The relationship which I am in now, is second relationship for me and first relationship for the guy I am dating.
Sometimes I don't get it whether he does not understand things or he just act ignorant about it. So basically I am in a relationship where we do not have any future ((I know you guys might be thinking that why m I in this relationship and this is not even called relationship, it's just FWB or no strings attached kind of thing, so the things is that I know it and I know in the end I will suffer I lot, but I genuinely like this guy a lot. I not only like him, I love him a lot,,,, though I am unable to understand lot of things from his side, still I like him, I know you can call me stupid!)) So recently we were having some discussion and I told him that 'after break-up I won't keep any contact with you' (which is totally natural) so his reply was 'no we will still be in contact' and said that my brother recently got married and I am in good terms with my brother.... I mean for a sec I was totally blank that is he trying to call me his sister! But I knew that in the end I will be the one who will get pissed, so I just ignored that thing as always...
So I am sharing this thing with you guys just to tell you that being in relationship with someone means, you "belong to that person mentally and physically"... And you cannot share that feelings with someone.. this is called a relationship! Coz recently I am Realising that people need to understand different between dating and relationship!
So when you are in relationship you cannot see that person to have any kind of physical interaction with any other person. (Like kissing and sex and all) so after break-up when you are married to someone else how can you be in relationship with some other person! Or after break-up how can you be friends, I mean are you strong enough to see that the person which use to belong to you, now belongs to someone else, physically and mentally! If you can, I guess either you are strong enough or you don't know the meaning of love coz for you that relationship was only for temporary pleasure.!