“I’m not smart, I’m not pretty, I’m not likable, I’m not special, I’m too old, I’m too shy, I’m not interesting, I’m not lovable...” In all the years I repeatedly told myself all of these lies, I’d never considered for a minute that they weren’t true 🤔
And although I had no proof to support my internal claims, I lived much of my life as though they were indisputable facts.
I’ve learned an awful lot lately about belief ceilings & limiting beliefs. I’ve learned how debilitating they can be. I learned how much time you can waste trying to find ways to prove to yourself that you are right.
Continually discounting your worth is a really handy way to keep yourself stuck, complacent and even comfortable. It’s easy to excuse yourself for not pursuing your dreams, for not
removing yourself from a toxic relationship or for not taking time to present yourself as you truly want to be seen. When you think you have evidence to support your claims, any attempts to better yourself would be futile, right?
I promise you my friend, those horrible things you say about yourself, they’re not real. They only exist in YOUR mind.
The really great news here is you CAN start thinking different thoughts. You can remove the old defeatist thoughts and replace them with new, positive and provable thoughts! It takes daily work but it is possible!
What is the first POSITIVE thought about yourself that comes to mind?